Monday, May 6, 2013

Kajian Kebahagiaan Dengan Komunikasi Interpersonal


Kajian ini bertujuan mengenalpasti hubungan antara kebahagiaan dengan komunikasi interpersonal dalam kalangan staf PDRM di Bukit Aman. Kajian ini juga dijalankan untuk mengenalpasti perbezaan antara faktor demografi terpilih iaitu jantina, status perkahwinan dan pangkat dengan kebahagiaan begitu juga dalam mengenalpasti perbezaan antara faktor demografi terpilih iaitu jantina, status perkahwinan, pangkat dan bangsa dengan komunikasi interpersonal. Dalam kajian ini, sebanyak 217 responden diperolehi daripada staf  di Bukit Aman. Instrumen yang digunakan adalah Oxford Happines Questionaire untuk menganalisis tahap kebahagiaan. Manakala Communicator Style Measure untuk menganalisis gaya komunikasi. Analisa kajian dibuat dengan menggunakan taburan kekerapan dan statistik deskriptif. Ujian - t tidak bersandar, ujian ANOVA sehala dan Post Hoc Tukey digunakan untuk menguji perbezaan antara faktor demografi dengan kedua-dua pembolehubah ini iaitu tahap kebahagiaan dan komunikasi interpersonal. Dapatan kajian menunjukkan bahawa terdapat perbezaan kebahagiaan yang signifikan berdasarkan jantina, status perkahwinan, pangkat dan bangsa. Begitu juga dengan dapatan kajian untuk pembolehubah yang kedua, ia dilihat mempunyai perbezaan komunikasi interpersonal yang signifikan berdasarkan jantina, status perkahwinan, pangkat dan bangsa. Pekali Spearman telah digunakan untuk menguji hubungan diantara kedua-dua pembolehubah tersebut. Keputusan kajian menunjukkan terdapat hubungan yang signifikan antara kebahagiaan dengan komunikasi interpersonal. Kebanyakan responden mengakui bahawa tahap kebahagiaan mereka  dipengaruhi oleh komunikasi interpersonal yang baik.

Boleh dapatkan rujukan drp :

Maktab Polis Cheras
Maktab Polis Kuala Kubu Bharu
Library University Malaya.

Sunday, November 25, 2012

Thanks with love Receive with appreciation


Sunday, November 18, 2012

A pray for GAZA


Tuesday, October 30, 2012

What brings happines in u?



Let share with me u thought and feeling.

Friday, October 19, 2012

Hujan Oh Hujan

Bila hujan ingat ape?

Katak
Ubi kayu rebus
Tidur
Air mata
Banjir
Nak lari2 dalam hujan

Tapi apa yang kita nampak?

2 kanak-kanak berlari dalam hujan, bila ditumpangkan I tanya mereka...dah habis sekolah ke lari2 dalam hujan ne ? Tak aunty, kami nak gi solat JUMAAT lepas ne baru gi sekolah.. Oh terkedu hati bergenang air mata. I wish n hoping both of them will have successfull life. AMIN. I turunkan mereka di masjid sambil jerit ..Lari cepat2 ...nanti demam pula.

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Tip of iceberg


Yang bahagian atas adalah luaran yang terpamer dan boleh dilihat, dirasai  oleh semua insan. Termasuklah karektor, impian, keinginan, personaliti serta attitude.

Di bawah dasarnya terlindung permasalahan, cita-cita, keinginan, perasaan, personaliti dan attitude kita sebagai insan. Besar dan sangat besar rupanya apa yang terselindung. 

Kadang-kadang ia hadir dalam mimpi dan angan-angan, jika mampu ia akan direalisasikan oleh kita. Sesetengahnya jika tidak di luahkan, dikongsi dan dipamerkan akan menjadi tekanan dan bebanan dalam benak hati serta pemikiran kita. 

Jadinya setiap insan perlu mempunyai sifat -sifat positif yang baik. Ia perlu di tanam di dalam hati dan secara tidak langsung ia akan terpancar ke raut wajah. Siapa tak nak memiliki wajah yang tenang, sejuk dan mendamaikan, berbanding wajah cantik menawan yang palsu? Jadilah diri sendiri dalam melarik kehidupan. Tetapi jika sifat negatif anda melebihi sifat yang baik, itu perlu di ubah. 

Betulke ade pepatah mengatakan insan yang peramah dan gembira, sewaktu tidurnya akan menangis? Pada saya tidak. Perasaan yang dikurniakan ALLAH perlu di ekspresikan dalam kehidupan kita. Adakalanya permasalahan yng dibelenggu sukar untuk di kongsi, kita mencari2 kepada siapa kita harus kongsikan? Tanya hati anda. Ramai kaunselor2 yang boleh membantu anda dalam merungkai kebuntuan. 

ETIKA Dalam kehidupan


Etika berasal dari bahasa yunani yaitu ethos yang bererti karakter, watak kesusilaan atau adat kebiasaan di mana etika berhubungan erat dengan konsep individu atau kelompok sebagai alat penilai kebenaran atau evaluasi terhadap sesuatu yang telah dilakukanSecara Etimologi Etika berasal dari bahasa Yunani Ethos yang bererti sikap, cara berfikir, watak kesesuaian atau adat. ( dipetik dari  : AWAN BIRU

Terdetik hati kecil untuk berkongsi tentang etika. Pernahkah kita bertanya diri :

1) Ade etika ke jika aku buat pilihan/ tetapan begini?

Jika hati berkata tidak, seharusnya janganlah dipaksa dan di buat. Kerana ia mmg bukan pilihan kita. Jika orang lain lakukan mengapa tidak? Itu etika dia, bukan etika yang saya amalkan. Maka anda akan jadi lebih tegas dan bijak dalam mebuat pilihan dan tetapan. Ia tak bermakna anda menentang kepada keadaan normal yang biasa. Mampukan anda menegakkan prinsip yang dipegang?

HERO


Tuesday, October 16, 2012

CAN YOU IMAGINE LIFE WITHOUT MISTAKE?


Monday, October 3, 2011

SESI KAUNSELING PERCUMA

Bagi anda yang ingin menjalani sesi kaunseling secara percuma, sila hubungi saya utk temujanji.

Sunday, February 27, 2011

BOWEN'S

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

INFANT DEAR

Welcome to Life With an Infant

By June Tester, M.D., M.P.H.

Be the best mom and dad you can be — but cut yourselves some slack!


First-time parents bringing their newborns in for their first visit are a special group. They naturally all have different styles, but no matter how they are weathering new parenthood so far, one thing is universal: Life as they knew it has changed.

As you become acquainted with your “new life,” many people will likely offer you advice. Some of it may be of no use to you, but you will no doubt embrace some advice wholeheartedly. Remember the following five points to help you through the early days at home with your little one – and beyond.

1. YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE PERFECT
You are responsible for the basics, like providing nourishment and care to your newborn. You are not required to make sure that your child has the best toy/stroller/sling on the market, or that you respond to every new challenge with the perfect solution. When it comes down to it, you don’t even have to make sure that your baby’s socks match. Your baby will be fine with a parent who is “good enough,” especially one who realizes that perfection doesn’t exist.

2. BE KIND TO YOURSELF
One analogy is that of the flight attendant explaining what to do if the cabin pressure drops. “Put your own mask on before you put one on your child.” The message here is that you will not be able to take care of your child if you are not operating at your own full capacity. For example, if you are breastfeeding, remember that you need to eat and hydrate well to produce all that breast milk (nearly the amount in a wine bottle!) in a day.

Pay attention to your mood, and if you think you might be experiencing postpartum depression, get help for your own sake and for the good of your child.

3. PROTECT YOUR TIME
Now that you are a parent, your time is even more valuable a commodity than it has ever been. There are a thousand things in a day that can demand your attention, and learning to tune out things that aren’t urgent will help you tremendously. For example, if the phone rings while you are spending time with your newborn — whether you’re changing a diaper or having a quiet nap together — let whoever is calling leave a message.

4. ACCEPT THE HELP THAT OTHERS OFFER
Although you don’t need to answer the phone every time it rings, keep in mind that sometimes it’s ringing because someone wants to help you. Don’t be shy about accepting offers from family and friends to come and bring you food and to do your laundry, or to watch the baby while you take a refreshing shower.

Also keep in mind that these visits are meant to be helpful, rather than overwhelming. You might want to limit how many people come by, and how long they stay. And, to prevent your baby from getting sick, make it clear that anyone who is ill should not come over.

5. TRUST YOUR DEVELOPING PARENTAL INSTINCT
New parents wonder constantly whether their newborn is behaving and developing normally. Is he sleeping too much (or too little)? Is that stool a normal consistency? With one’s first newborn, the list can be endless. New parents often worry about bothering their pediatrician with these concerns, but pediatricians expect these questions. A parent’s sense that something is “not right” is one of the most valuable things a pediatrician can work with, and often-serious illnesses are recognized because of a parent’s instinct that something about her child is amiss.

So though you may feel unsure and need guidance in the beginning, remind yourself that you are simply cultivating your parenting instinct. In time, you will be the expert on your child.

June Tester, M.D., M.P.H., is a pediatrician and researcher in Oakland, CA

TAKEN FROM : http://www.youandyourfamily.com

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